Abusive Relationships

Posted December 2nd, 2015 by lexa and filed in Guided Writings

8:00 a.m.

I have been having clients and friends who are  sad and worried about friends or loved ones in abusive relationships.  I know many people, including myself, who can’t understand why their friends or loved ones stay in abusive relationships and I hope my spirit guides can help us all…

Spirit Guides: It is very hard to watch someone you love make what you think are making the same mistakes over and over and over again. You feel like your friends or loved ones  can’t find any self worth when they continue to be in these kinds of relationships. Maybe that is true, maybe it is not. Everyone learns at different speeds and in different ways. How many times have you heard the same thing, like if you are running low on energy, take vitamin B, before you finally thought, Oh, I have heard that before, maybe I should try it. Your friends or loved ones are learning , just not at your speed.  Let’s look at another part of this equation, KARMA. You do not know what your friend or loved one has done in past lives to “deserve” this kind of treatment and you don’t know what kind of spiritual agreements they have with the people they are in the relationship with.

There is always a bigger picture than as a human you can see. Decide to find peace in allowing your friends or loved ones to be where they are without any judgment from you. Know that they are getting is what they need or their spiritual support group would intervene.

One Response to “Abusive Relationships”

  1. Maggie Basset says:

    Well its wonderful to see that you have an eye on these friends and loved ones. It sounds like your the perfect friend to help or aid in their needs. Those friends and loved ones must be so great full for the help that you are giving them. I guess all we can do in those situations is stay by our friends and loved ones and help them out. I’m sure your friends and loved ones are overjoyed that they have you to be with them in a time of need. After all… all we can do in this life in odd times is take in and give out love. Your a really trooper and look to read more of your blogs.